| How to Make an Origami Snail Posted: Simple, really - how to make a basic origami snail out of origami paper, or any paper you have lying around (a great way to recycle paper). And this snail only takes about a minute! Note: Origami purists don't use scissors but this snail needs one small cut at the end. Steps - Start off with a piece of square paper. You can tell if the paper is square by folding it in half diagonally. If you have any excess on one side, trim it off.
- If you're using patterned paper, place the patterned side down, and fold it in half to make a triangle. This ensures that your pattern will end up on the outside.
- Open up the folded piece. Fold one end to meet the line in the centre.
- Fold the other end to meet the line in the centre.
- Then, fold the left side to meet the centre, and do the same for the other side.
- Make a fold. Fold approximately where the dotted line is shown in this image.
- Fold it back on itself, like so. This makes the tail.
- Fold the paper in half.
- Make a crease in the front half, as shown in the image. Use this crease to help you push the front up into the centre of the snail.
- Line up the two sides at the front. Make a matching crease in the other side, so that you can lay it flat.
- Cut a little slit at the top. Fold one side down jauntily to make the eye stalks.
- Admire your handiwork. Draw a spiral design for the shell. Discerning snail fans will notice the spiral in this photo is drawn the wrong way - artistic licence!
Video Warnings - If you use a scalpel for the slit part, do be careful. Likewise with scissors.
Things You'll Need - Paper - recycled paper is just fine
- Scissors/scalpel
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| How to Love Unconditionally Posted: Love is unconditional when it endures despite unfavorable circumstances. [1]People have a hard enough time figuring out what love is, and then there's unconditional love, which some will argue is the only kind of real love. Steps - Realize that everyone, no matter what creed, color, or situation deserves love. As humans we all want to be happy and feel loved. We should want this not only for ourselves but for others as well.
- Think of love as an action, not a feeling. A feeling is something we get from someone, and when we stop getting it, we often change our behavior somehow. If we have to do something, or be a certain way, in order to receive love, that love is conditional. Instead, if you start thinking of love as the behavior itself, the reward becomes the feeling you get when you act a certain way, not when someone else acts a certain way. And you can continue acting this way all the time, regardless of how other people behave--it becomes an act of generosity. As Stephanie Dowrick says, "love is not love except when it is generous."[2]
- Always ask yourself, what is the most loving thing I can do for this particular person in this particular moment? Love isn't really one size fits all; what might be a loving act toward one person could be harmful to another person, in that it doesn't help them get closer to becoming a truly happy human being. Unconditional love is a new decision you need to make in every situation, not a hard and fast rule you can apply to everyone all the time.
- Remember that love doesn't mean making sure someone is always comfortable. If you believe loving someone is about fostering their growth, most people acknowledge that pain and discomfort are part of growth, and if you shield someone from all pain or discomfort, you are not loving them. So, don't confuse loving someone with blindly making them comfortable, satisfying their desires, and shielding them from any kind of pain. If you do, you are only making it difficult for them to grow as human beings.
- Consider that if love is unconditional, it is given to everyone freely, including yourself. Another reason the previous step is important is because if you don't follow it, you're well on your way to becoming a people pleaser, which means you are not being unconditionally loving to yourself. Instead, recognize the times when doing what is best for you will occasionally have you out of sync with another - Maryanne Radmacher calls this understanding "the difference between tolerance and allowing mediocrity a plot in your garden."[3]
- Forgive. Even if someone doesn't apologize, it's inherently loving to both them and yourself to let go of your anger and resentment toward them. Keep in mind Piero Ferrucci's advice that forgiving "is not something we do, but something we are."[4] Again, don't mistake being willing to forgive for letting people walk all over you. How you act (lovingly) toward the person will vary, but your ability to practice unconditional love will be clouded if you hold on to negative feelings.
- Gauge how you feel. If you've ever had a moment when you practiced unconditional love, whether spontaneously or deliberately, you probably felt energized and liberated, not drained and burdened. The more often you feel the the former after acting a certain way, the more you're loving unconditionally.
Tips - Many people feel a sweep of unconditional love upon the birth of a child. That's not to say everyone does or should, or that you can't feel it otherwise. It just may be a useful way for some people to remember what unconditional love is supposed to feel like.
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